A Mother’s Remarkable Communication with her Deceased Son
A month ago, a woman wrote me about her experiences with her son in the afterlife. I was so taken by her spontaneous abilities that I asked for permission to post her story. Although I have changed her name to preserve privacy, the words are otherwise hers.
My name is Georgia and my son died by suicide on April 18, 2012. He was 31 years old and a gifted architect and just a fun guy. He was married but had no children. As you can imagine, losing him was devastating to me and to our family. We were shocked and in total disbelief that this has happened to us
The first contact I had with Ben was on May 10, 2012. I was lying in bed still awake and thinking about getting up when I heard his voice. It was as clear a bell. I could even feel his breath in my ear. All he said was, “Hey Mom.” Now, this was the way he always began his voice mail messages to me. I was so happy to hear from him!!!! A week went by and again I was lying in bed in the early morning and felt him touch my shoulder. I started having monthly dreams about Ben from that moment on.
The dreams are very clear, not disjointed as some dreams can be…a real conversation between the two of us. In the first dream he told me he never died. We both cried and held one another. Again in June, I had another dream around the same time of the month. This time I was able to hug him and could feel his skin and the sweat on his shirt. We hugged and cried then too. July, another dream, more crying and hugging. Every month around the same time, another dream. I keep a journal and, of course, write every detail down. I am so glad I did!
The best dream happened on February 12, 2013. I was actually awakened by a bright light in my bedroom, very bright colors of pulsing blue and white light. I watched the light pulse on the bedroom wall and it took the form of an outline of an angel, a very primitive angel with no face. I knew immediately that it was 
Ben’s angel!!! I tried to take pictures of it with my cellphone camera but could not capture the image. I then went back to sleep only to be awakened again by an even more beautiful light of purple and blue surrounded by a gold glowing halo. It was just stunningly beautiful! I fell back to sleep again and then Ben came to me in my dream and said to me, “Mom, our bond can never be broken. I am always with you.”
I then saw his angel again, more defined this time. The angel’s head was bent down and a red heart pulsed in her chest area. Then butterflies starting coming out of her and she disappeared. I woke up sobbing with joy!!!!
I then had three dreams about him in the month of March, one in April around his anniversary date and the last one in May. No dreams in June or so far this month and I miss them so much! I have had other types of contact with him though. In my office desk drawer when I was looking for a pen, I found an old birthday card he had sent me. Twice I found a small picture of him on the kitchen floor and counter on the exact dates we were to have dinner with his friends from college.
I painted the picture of the angel. It turned out beautiful. I just want and need the dreams to continue. He feels so far away right now…why has he stopped coming to me in my dreams????
I wrote Georgia back a congratulatory note, summing it up with advice—“Here’s your challenge. If you want to know why the dreams have stopped, ASK BEN!!!! Don’t full around with secondary sources, go to the true source. You’ll get your answer.”
She wrote back immediately that she had a gut feeling about why the dreams stopped. She believed it was because she was experiencing anger towards her son for leaving. She even admitted swearing at him now and again, not forgetting to add, of course, that she loved him and would always be there for him.
Along with this communication she attached a picture of Ben’s, a real poster boy for a gorgeous All-American guy, and her charming drawing of his angel, posted above.
My response to her gut feeling was sharp and to the point: “I need to tell you right now that genuine—and justified—anger is probably the fastest, surest way to make contact. You may believe that your anger is blocking him coming to you in your dreams, but that is no more than a belief of yours. Such a belief, however, is enough to block contact. I’ve worked a great deal with people who have taken their own lives. In almost every case they feel terrible remorse for the pain they’ve caused. Ben may need to unburden himself with you.
At my suggestion, she began reading my book, The Last Frontier, especially the chapters where I explain how to communicate with the departed and what to expect.
Within three days, she wrote back again, clearly excited.
I have been practicing the principles and suggestions from the last chapter in your book and I think it has opened up even more communication…. I felt his presence yesterday afternoon and my whole body tingled. I started to speak to him right then and there, and that night he appeared in my dream!!!!!
I asked him why he didn’t tell me he was troubled or needed my help. He said, “I tried Mom, I just couldn’t.” He said he was worried that he didn’t have a “job.” I told him, “just come home…you can always come home.” Then we took a ride in his car and had fun laughing and feeling the wind whip through our hair. He was wearing his grey sweatshirt and had a smile that would light up a room!
WOW!
Hopefully, more to come!
I’m sure there is a lot more to come from Georgia. Stay posted!
Linda
2018-07-16 @ 6:12 PM
My son passed away two month ago from a drug overdose, he would have turned 36 on the 13th of this month and I can’t stop crying. I knew he was unhappy but couldn’t do anything about it. I offered any help he needed and told him if it killed him I wouldn’t be able to handle it but it happened anyway. I just can’t stop crying.
Julia Assante
2019-02-09 @ 12:49 PM
Oh Linda, nothing is worse. But it’s never too late. You two can communicate, as so many mothers have learned. Look at the tips I give at the bottom of my homepage for afterlife communication or get my book where you will find several chapters on the subject. Julia
georgina simpson
2018-08-13 @ 10:56 AM
Hi my name is Georgina
and beautiful sons name was dylan he was 22 when he pasted 2 half months ago dylan has come to me in lots of whys 1st one was I went in to church and cried as I came dylan put a song in my head feeling good by nina simoan I never knew that he liked this song till a asked his sister he always you to sing it when he had his hair cut which is so lovely played it for him and his funeral
since then out of know were my phone lit up on its own saying I am here
the other night I woke up to him calling my name look at my phone and there was a picture of a son saying I love you to the end
I had my daughter say said he came to her saying is mum ok leah and said please look after mum
he also came to me in a dream last night I asked him if he was ok he said yes mum I am ok asked me if I was ok he said he was happy he came over to me and give a big hug the hug I so wanted my son is definitely with me
Julia Assante
2019-02-09 @ 12:46 PM
Wonderful Georgina! Go further and try to converse with him. Look at the tips I give at the bottom of my homepage for afterlife communication or get my book where you will find several chapters on the subject and stories like yours! Go Girl!
Julia
Adriana M Imbrogno
2018-09-25 @ 6:14 PM
Hi, I lost my son Oscar on June 22nd. He took his life. While he was alive our relationship wasn’t great. We used to blame me and my ex husband for anything that went wrong with him. On our last conversation he told me he hated me and that he didn’t want to have anything to do with me anymore. God knows I loved him and cared for him with all my heart. I had gone to see a medium trying to get him to communicate with me. I keep wondering if is ok, If he found the peace he was searching for, if he still don’t care for me and if that is the reason for not coming thru. I just need someone to validate that he is OK….
Julia Assante
2019-01-24 @ 4:10 PM
Adriana, you are the best person to validate it. Communicate with him directly. Use the tips given at the bottom of my homepage. Let me know!
Rose Mcalister
2018-11-25 @ 8:15 PM
I also lost my son by suicide on August 12 2017 manner by hanging in his closet that early morning he was 34 yrs old I sinced moved into his room so i can be more around him .he didn’t believe in god he called himself an atheist and i myself call myself agnostic i dont know what to believe. all i know for sure that i hurt in my heart for him forever i have experience dreams from him being sad,lost,him knowing that i missed him very much without him saying nothing at all i want to talk to him and want to hear his voice,Rose
Julia Assante
2019-01-24 @ 3:53 PM
Dear Rose, Truthfully it doesn’t matter if a person believes in God or not, the point is, nothing ever dies, nothing of an animal or a planet or a human. So rest easy on that problem. However, people can have difficulties in the afterlife, but generally not as severe as the problems they had when in the flesh. Since afterlife communication is an inborn ability, there is no reason you cannot communicate with your son. In order to do so, you need to work with your strongest emotion, no matter what it is. For tips, look at the bottom of my homepage to get you started. If that doesn’t do the trick, try reading that chapters in my book that deal with making contact. Julia
Gail
2018-12-11 @ 7:30 PM
I lost my 45 year old son in August 2018. He was Bi-polar 1, and at 39 after being hospitalized every year for complications after gall bladder surgery at 17, he was given Propanol and became addicted to pain killers. He eventually started buying off the street, because he couldn’t get it legally, and unfortunately his last dose was laced with 2 types of Fentynal and morphine. He was alone with his dog in the apartment all night when he passed. My Daughter and he were BEST friends and soulmates, and I who carried him and loved him so much, are totally devastated. We are still in denial. Neither of have dreamt about him or been able to communicate in any way. Why???
Julia Assante
2019-01-24 @ 3:01 PM
Dear Gail, There are so many reasons why communication could be blocked. He could be on his end too, you know. However, try again, you and your daughter, using the tips you’ll find at the bottom of my homepage. I wrote several chapter on communicating in my book too, The Last Frontier. Because the ability to make contact with the departed is inborn, you and your daughter can do it too! Warmly, Julia